Why?

What do you mean?

How will you do that?

What will it look like when you're done?

What will it feel like when you're done?

Is that really what you want, or is that what you're supposed to want?

It sounds like you're not too sure, tell me a bit more about it.

So how are you going to get there?

What's stopping you?

What's your first step?

Take action: Drop a few of these into conversation next time you're talking to a stranger. It's amazing what you can find out.